Parenting Issues & Education: 4583 C 1
Professor: Charles Coleman
Date: 09/26/2016
Blog # 3
There are many
things to think of when we are talking about different categories of families.
As we may all know, there are many family styles in this days. Now I want to focus on chaotic and well
function family. When I think about chaotic family I think about middle class family.
I think that chaotic family are ok, but the ways they do things, it does not
show that the things are in imperative. Whenever they are planning things, it
seems like they are much disorganized. Sometimes people call them “lazy
family”. Chaotic family seems to be lack of directive in what they are doing. Children from in chaotic family most of the
time come to school very late than other children. Some researchers have showed that some of the
parents in chaotic family can let other parents abuse the children. Also this
type of family is not really care than much about what their family members are
saying.
The parents of
chaotic family have their ways to talk to their children. Chaotic parents do
not tell their children all details about whichever the children may ask to
them. I can say that sometime is because they do not want to tell the truth to
their children and other time it is because they are trying to make the life
easier between them and their children. For example a child may ask his or her
parent to get a chocolate, and since the parent knows that they will not be
able to give that chocolate to that child, this parent will chose to tell that
child how chocolate is really bad to him or her. In this case that child will
not ask the chocolate again. By this time they will both ok (parent and child).
However, whenever this child will be able to know that the chocolate is not bad
to him or her, this child will not trust that parent again. This child will always
think that that parent is not telling the truth.
The well
function family is the great family. This type of family is very ok in whichever
they want to do. Well function family has their ways to discipline their
children. The parents from in well function family, they always want to give
details to their children in whichever question they might have. Well function
family always try to see which time can be the best time to have “Family
meeting” in order to have discussion about something of their family.
The family members in this family are always want to make other family
members happy. They work very hard to help each other. This family believes that
family relationship requires time to time and they believe that family
relationships involve some amounts of give and take.
There are some similarities between chaotic
and well function family. These two
different families can all have or plane to have children. Not matter what,
they both have to plan how they will educate their children if they will have
them. They can all have “family rules”. There will be relationships between
parents and children. All families want to discipline their children even though
they may have different point view of how to discipline their children but they
will try to do so. They all know who is in their family members. These two types
of families believe that children have to have their parents’ supports. In
somehow, chaotic and well function family wants to see the successes comes in their
family.
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